Privacy, Please

She kept her personal life close to her heart; for if she revealed too much, she might be exposed to scrutiny, or worse yet,  feel vulnerable and out of control.  These discomforts only added to her pain, so she opted to shut out friends who tried to get too close. We wanted to help, but we knew that knocking repeatedly would only cause her more grief.

The few allowed in are weeping

now that she’s died too young and is permanently sleeping.

We, on the outside, wish we could’ve done more, but respecting her wishes,

we find comfort, trusting that giving space to people who prefer privacy is often granting peace.

And isn’t the gift – to rest in peace – what we desire to give to

those who’re in immeasurable pain?

Not everyone has an open-door policy, and that’s ok.

Respecting others’ wishes –

IMG_4162“Privacy, Please”

Let her rest in peace.

One thought on “Privacy, Please

  1. Beautiful

    On Apr 18, 2017 5:55 PM, “RP Stillworks Photography” wrote:

    > rpstillworks posted: “She kept her personal life close to her heart; for > if she revealed too much, she might be exposed to scrutiny, or worse yet, > feel vulnerable and out of control. These discomforts only added to her > pain, so she opted to shut out friends who tried to get ” >

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